We all have dreams and make plans..right? Right from our He-man or Barbie days till today, we have been dreaming or making some sort of plans. Though there is a hell lot of difference between the dreams we saw and plans we made at different stages of life. We would dream for cricket bats of the highest quality, a GI-JOE set or even a 4 geared cycle as a birthday gift. For girls, please don’t feel left out, I have imagined your dreams like having the best dinner-set to play or the largest collection of Barbies amongst your group or having that perfect dress some heroine wore (see u got to accept your natural behavior). Talking about today when we are in colleges, or working in an office or mite be about to cross the border out of schooling, we are still making plans without even thinking of what happened to the plans we made earlier. There is nothing weird in that, it is human nature. We actually force dream ourselves for what we desire at that moment. Yes, FORCE-DREAM is an odd pair of words which describes day dreaming. We plan what we want and picture ourselves out there and call it a dream.
For instance people in final semester of colleges, who are planning to start working. They spend time thinking about whether they will be hired or not. But in their good times, they actually picture themselves working for that reputed organization and they spell it as their dream to work in that same organization. By God’s grace if they get selected in the same organization, they call it like DREAMS FULFILLED.
People portray themselves in the same attire they would love to see themselves in, which instills a desire and spelled as a dream.
Now the question is whether planning dreams is bad or a good habit or idea or whatever.
Yes it is a good idea to do that but being practical at the same time is what is required. There is something called positive thinking. The more you think about your dreams or plans, the more you imagine yourselves in it, positivity flows in and you actually make efforts to fulfill it.
Start portraying yourself in your dream, be it about your career or your relationship or even your life as a whole. Figure out what you exactly want. Desire for something not out of the world, but well within your reach and achieving that should make you feel satisfied and happy. Dream even for very small things which will make you happy. There is a saying like – being happy, anyhow. None can be happy without a reason as long as he or she is a normal human being. We need reasons to keep us going and everyday we want more.
We pray to God daily and besides thanking him for keeping safe and all stuff we always wish for that something special which we have been waiting for long. Along with that wish we should work towards it to bask in the happiness of its achievement.
So, start dreaming, make plans for yourself, for your coming days or even years. Plan about your career, think about your relationship. Which way are they going and where do you want to see them a couple of years from now. Don’t leave everything to destiny, it will do its work. But we should have our plans ready just in case we are lucky enough to choose our own way.
You get only one life and that too is limited like a mathematical range {birth-death}. Live your present with full vigor and also plan your tomorrow with equal vigor to ensure that out there in heaven you can say that you lived your life the way you wanted to.
Signing off…. Thanks.